December, this time of the year is about family, loved ones, and the holiday spirit that flows within the air. In most cases I enjoy the holiday traditions of family and loved ones getting together and being the good samaritans we are supposed to be, yet I am finding myself in a different aspect of the holiday life this year. Back for another four weeks from college and I am merrily not looking forward to it.
The reason I started this blog was for my adventures with women and my friends as my escapades went on through college. The blog "Clawfords Game" was inspired from a book my friend Russ was reading a couple of weeks ago. "Claw" came from a PUA move, clawing a girl used in context means to wrap your arm around her. Why I choose claw was because the night before I started this blog my friends and I went out looking who could claw the most girls. Obviously I won, I won creep of the night. The claw is a good technique when dealing with women in a PUA stance, but sometimes I feel your going a little ahead of yourself. "Ford" came from the residence hall I first lived in at Ohio University, and what a great beginning I had there. Everyone who lived in Crawford Hall floor four 2010 were a great group of people.
The "Game" is a look in what college really is, it is a game. No matter how you look at college, I believe it is a game. A game because many students go to a four year university knowing or not knowing what they want to become after graduating. But not many of the students know how complex college actually is, and I am not talking about the education, yes the education at any university is going to be tough but I am talking about the social life of a college student.
Building the social life of a college student is like putting together a large corporation in four or five years. Before starting a large business you first have to find out what your goals are and how your going to do become successful. Yet, you have all your ambitions in place but really you do not know how to do it. As you build your business it starts off small and increases in size as you go on, many changes occur and you start to realize the real meaning of why you were there in the first place. As you move towards your final goals you meet many accomplishing friends and co-workers on your way that help you in the future. Mental struggles feel like they take years to get over and many distractions are put in the way of yourself. Reality hits you with a low blow in the stomach and it feels incredible, a feeling that you never knew existed, success. When finished you look back at your struggles and hardships and no longer take those things for granted. Success is defined by the meaning you give it.
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